Buying a new Home after Divorce, Disease or Death
When Life Turns Upside Down: Buying a new Home after Divorce, Disease or Death
Divorce, disease, death. Life throws unexpected challenges our way. And they don’t just turn your personal world upside down — they can turn your living situation upside down too. Suddenly, you may need to buy a home on your own, and the thought of doing it can feel completely overwhelming.
Maybe it’s you going through this. Maybe it’s your sister, your mum, or a close friend who is. She’s been through something huge and now she has to step into the Sydney property market solo. She might feel paralysed and unable to make a decision. Or she might be driving you mad, endlessly searching property listings without taking action. Either way, it’s hard to know where to start.
Navigating the property market is hard at the best of times – and even harder when you’re dealing with major life changes. Especially if, for the first time, you or someone you know is facing it alone.
When you’re a two-income family, it’s challenging enough in Sydney to pay the mortgage on a family home. But when separation, illness, or loss strike, it can often be the woman left carrying both the emotional burden and the responsibility of finding a home.
Even in 2025, many women still don’t have full financial independence. Time out of the workforce to raise children often means reduced superannuation. After separation, these women can be left financially unstable – while their ex-partner holds the larger super balance and a clearer financial future.
Then there are older women. Recently, after a yoga class, two women in their late 60s confided they were thinking of leaving their husbands after decades together. Neither had ever bought a home on their own, and both felt daunted by the idea of leaving the big family house for something smaller – and stepping into the unknown.
And then there’s illness. As a breast cancer survivor, I know how a serious health condition can shake your entire world. Treatment, fatigue, medical costs — it all takes a toll. You may need to downsize to ease financial pressure, or simply to make life easier, but in the midst of it all, the thought of inspections and endless decisions can feel impossible.
Or perhaps it’s your husband who has become seriously ill or has passed away. He may have been the one who always managed the money. Now, on top of grieving and caring, you’re left to figure out how to move from the family home into something more manageable — alone, after decades of making those choices together.
Why It Feels So Daunting
Buying property is stressful at the best of times. Doing it alone, while juggling grief, exhaustion, or anger, makes it even harder. Add the daily juggle of school pick-ups, sport drop-offs, and work commitments, and there’s little time or energy to be at every inspection.
You’re suddenly having to speak with Real Estate Agents, interpret confusing price guides and spend Saturdays walking through open homes that are inevitably above budget – draining energy that you don’t have.
Negotiating, making financial decisions, and facing it all alone can feel intimidating and overwhelming.
Where I Come In as a Buyers Agent
If you – or someone you love – is facing a major life transition and doesn’t know where to begin, that’s where I step in.
I specialise in supporting women through these moments. Not just by doing the legwork – the research, the inspections, the negotiations – but by being a steady partner in the process. You don’t have to make what is probably the biggest investment of your life alone.
Always with empathy, I support you through the buying journey, so it feels less daunting by:
- Advocating for you in a market that can feel intimidating.
- Providing clarity and guidance so you can move forward with confidence.
- Doing the legwork — attending inspections, arranging private viewings, and shortlisting only the properties that fit your budget and priorities.
- Acting quickly — to secure opportunities at time-sensitive private inspections so you don’t miss out.
- Accessing off-markets and pre-markets — that you won’t find online giving you first look at opportunities others don’t have access to yet.
- Cutting through “guide price” smoke and mirrors — so you don’t waste time inspecting properties that were never in reach.
- Coordinating with your conveyancer and mortgage broker — to create a support team that helps you transition smoothly to your new home – and your next stage of life.
“Judith provided exceptional support during the buying process and even went above and beyond to make the transition smoother, easing the stress of moving house.”
— Vanessa, Solo Home Buyer
Judith Treanor is a Buyer’s Agent and Relocation Consultant specialising in the Inner West and the Lower North Shore.
Want to learn more about Judith? Read our recent Getting To Know You interview where Judith shares her journey to becoming one of the Inner West’s most sought-after buyer’s agents.
Judith Treanor, Buyer’s Agent
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